Thoughts of Dude
Friday, January 9, 2026
Remembering Greenland
When I look back on it now, it is sad how I didn't appreciate the experience then as I do now. I was more concerned about counting down the days until I could leave. However, the experience of living there is one I will never forget.
Greenland is like no place I have ever been. It was a very unique place.
I initially had volunteered for the assignment in an agreement that I would be granted the base assignment of my choice after my one-year tour there.
I boarded a C-130 military plane at McGuire Air Force Base in New Jersey for my 13-hour flight. There were no windows or inflight movies. We were given a blanket and a "boxed lunch". When we arrived, it was mid-afternoon and total darkness. My sponsor boarded the aircraft, tossed me a parka and said, "Here, you will need this!" - and I did!
On my first night, the base experienced a Phase 3 blizzard which was the highest rated storm requiring everyone to remain in place. I looked out of the window of my room only seeing white as the wind whipped around our building. It was then I wondered again what decision I had made about being there and volunteering for the assignment. Fortunately, that first night was the last Phase 3 storm I had to experience during my time there.
My assignment at Thule was in the Military Post Office. I handled the mail and provided postal service to American military and civilians who worked there. I also worked with Danish and Greenlandics. The Danes called Americans "hestetyve" which translated from Danish meant "horse thieves" which was alleged due to our fascination with Westerns.
Yes, it was cold in Greenland. There were no trees or grass. Only snow/ice in the winter and mud and rocks during the spring/summer. There had been a constant joke people would say about Greenland that there was a woman behind every tree but there were just no trees. There were, in fact, women assigned to the base but still no trees.
I didn't like the "dark season" which lasted until mid-April when it was dark every day. There was an excitement when we would see a slither of sunlight peak above the mountains. I preferred when it was 24 hours of sunlight during the spring/summer months when the temperature reached into the upper 30s or lower 40s. I did most of my off-base exploring during those months on my days off. I even walked across the frozen bay and climbed up on an iceberg which was trapped in the bay. Looking back on that now, it probably wasn't the smartest thing I did.
We played softball during the warmest months. Our field was a hard mud field with many rocks. Sliding was not allowed in fear of serious injury. A base hit could ricochet against the rocks and result in a home run. In one game it was so foggy that you couldn't see the outfielders. Our team lost in the championship game.
I'm sure things there are much different now. We didn't have the Internet then or cell phones. We were allowed two 15-minute "morale calls" per week. We had one Armed Forces Television channel which aired a variety of shows. We would see sports about two weeks after they were originally aired back in the states.
The highlight for most on the base was the arrival of the plane with people, mail and packages. The radio station on the base would announce the "Big Mac Attack" when the plane was 40 miles out. People would converge on the terminal. I would often drive our mail truck there to pick up the bags of mail and return to the post office to sort and put up the mail to impatient patrons waiting for something to hit their mailbox.
If I could go back and give my younger self some advice, I would tell me to enjoy the experience instead of counting the days to leave. As I look back on it now, I can appreciate more what I had experienced then.
It saddens me that there is a push to take over Greenland. Greenland doesn't belong to us or anyone else. It is a special place which should never be exploited.
Wednesday, January 7, 2026
Christmas in New York
Now that I have spent my first Christmas in New York, I can give you the scoop on what the reality is about Christmas in the city.
Let me begin by telling you that if you think a trip to New York for Christmas is going to be some dreamy, Hallmark experience it is not! Do NOT come to New York expecting this wonderful Christmas experience.
With us living here, we had the advantage of knowing when and how to get around and navigate the Christmas season. When you are a tourist visiting here, you have the pressure of doing everything you can in the limited amount of time you have here.
Make no mistake, there are a LOT of people here during the holidays. These are not crowds but blobs. It gets so condensed that you will find yourself unable to move at times.
So what did we do on our first Christmas in New York?
- Attended the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade
- Visited the New York Gingerbread competition
- Walked through the Christmas market at Bryant Park
- Saw the Christmas tree at Rockefeller Center
- Attended the performance of the Radio City Rockettes
- Viewed Christmas windows at Macy’s
- Walked 5th Avenue to see lights & displays
- Walked through the Christmas market in Times Square
- Walked through the Christmas market in Grand Central Terminal
Obviously we didn’t do everything we had hoped to do but these were the things at the top of our list. Some things we don’t need to do every year.
Also contrary to the movies, they don’t always have a “White Christmas” here. In fact, we got snow here the day after Christmas.
I enjoyed our first Christmas here and think we managed it well.
If you want to visit New York during Christmas, here are some suggestions:
- Map out your transportation and learn the subways.
- See the Christmas tree at Rockefeller Center early in the morning (5-6 am). Do not attend the tree lighting. It is a mess.
- Don’t spend your Christmas here. Visit at the beginning of the Christmas season. The Christmas markets are less crowded.
- Book any shows or experiences early and ahead of time. Prices are insane if you wait until you get here.
- If you want to shop at FAO Schwartz Toy Store, be prepared to wait. Lines wrap around the building.
I think many locals celebrate today with most of the Christmas tourists have departed. I won’t say that Christmas in New York isn’t a good experience only that you have to manage your expectations.
Tuesday, January 6, 2026
New Year Expectations
I usually try to manage my expectations of the new year and I’m not much into setting resolutions. I simply want to improve what I can and not set any unreasonable expectations.
A year ago my wife and I began the process of selling and purging things in preparation for our move to New York. It seemed like a daunting task a year ago but now we are here and we got it done. I haven’t regretted the move. It was a big move for us but I am glad we made it.
It was a big task. I won’t lie to you about that. I will tell you that I was not onboard with this move in the beginning and all the work it was going to take to get here. When I began to felt stressed about it, I would constantly remind myself that we couldn’t do it all at one time. It took small steps and doing a little every day. That’s the approach you have to take when you are faced with large tasks. Just take small steps instead of stressing out over the big picture.
Although I often stress out when I see the big picture. I try not to but I usually have to have a plan.
One of the most important pieces of advice I could give you is to sit down and map out your plan into smaller chunks so that you won’t be overwhelmed. Also, don’t be so rigid with your plan that you don’t allow yourself room for unexpected situations that might come up. One of those things you can’t predict - especially when you are selling a house - is any repairs you might need to do after an inspection. In our situation, I hadn’t predicted that we would need to make repairs to our chimney. These things happen and you have to expect the unexpected.
Yes I fussed and cussed along the way but in the end everything got done.
As we start another year, I am not planning another move this year but if we do we will do what we can to get it done.
Here’s a list that I found which should set our focus on the new year ahead:
- Self-reflect on your priorities
- Set goals that make sense.
- Set your focus on progress, not perfection.
- If you fail, regroup and keep trying.


