Saturday, November 15, 2025

Heroes of the Faith


We all need a little help along the way. As a believer in Jesus Christ, I have needed help from others on my journey. None of us can do it alone. For me there have been people who have come in and out of my life to encourage or inspire me in some way to keep running this race.

Romans 1:11-12 says, "I long to see you so that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to make you strong— that is, that you and I may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith."

They are my personal heroes of the faith. When I think about it, these are the people who immediately come to mind:

M.O. Sweat
My grandfather was the first one I recall looking up to and had a deep respect for. He was an old-time preacher man but he genuinely cared for his family and for people. Unfortunately, he passed away several years ago but his impact is still on my life today. I still have a video clip of when he once talked about how proud he was of me for sticking with God. That has encouraged me many times.

Bruce Scotton
My father was a preacher and would often schedule for evangelists to come to our church.  Bruce was an African-American evangelist who came to our church in Villa Rica, Georgia for a revival. This was the first time I recall receiving salvation. When we had other evangelists in our home, I was always invisible but Bruce included me. I remember fondly playing a handheld electronic football game with him.  He wasn't just a preacher but he was a real person to me. 

Eddie Smith
In one of the first churches my dad was appointed as pastor where we actually had young people close to my age, Eddie was the main one of the group and was a leader. I looked up to Eddie and he always someone you could talk to. 

Bubba Cardin
I first met Bubba when he was my counselor in church summer camp. He had an amazing way of teaching and making the Bible come alive. The first impression he made was his version of the song “He’s Alive” which he played on his banjo.  

Gary Lewis
One of my fellow preachers kids I first met in summer camp and other church events. We always had fun and always had a good laugh - many times at ourselves. He has become an inspiring minister.

Jay Thornton
Another fellow preachers kid I grew up with. At church camp we loved playing basketball and we also shared our love for our high school football teams. Jay is currently a pastor and just an overall great guy to know.

Gerald Green
Became my pastor. He was always a friend and came along to encourage me when I was going through some difficult times with my family. He even went to high school football games with me.

Lanis Lewis
Also a preachers kid (Gary’s brother) who I also met in church camp. He always fun to be around and one of the best preachers I have known. His sermons have always inspired and challenged me to be a better person.

Although I don’t interact with these regularly, I have been in contact with some throughout the years thanks to social media. The amazing thing is that when I do, it’s almost like we have never been apart. I also know that if I ever needed them they would support me in anyway they could. Their prayers and encouragement have helped me more than they will ever know. They are truly my heroes of the faith. I have been a better man because I have known them.


Monday, November 10, 2025

Am I Enough?

When you are alone with your thoughts, do you ever wonder if you are enough?

I do and I have.

Am I enough as a husband?
Am I enough as an employee?
Am I enough as a Christian?

I never feel like I am enough. Some of you may feel the same way. Imposter but pretending to have it together. Honestly I never feel like I have it together.

Am I down on myself? No. Just being transparent. Someone told me recently they struggled with "imposter syndrome".  Imposter Syndrome is a persistent self-doubt and a feeling of being a fraud despite evidence of our achievements.  We do enough to get by but never feel totally confident in ourselves.

What if we are exposed? What if people know the truth about us?

Those fears haunt us.

The one thing that we can be absolutely sure about is that God thinks we are enough. That’s the thing that I hold onto. Even those days I don’t feel I am enough, God tells me that I am.

God knows us. He knows our worth isn’t our job or what we do. He’s not impressed with a title.

We cannot let ourselves be weighed down by self-judgment and concern about your ability to make God accept you. We can't make Him love us more. The Creator of the Universe already loves us enough to sacrifice everything in order to be with us. He's loved us since the beginning of time, when He planned for our existence.

God's love is personal. He knows each of us individually and loves us personally. His is a mighty love that has no beginning and no end.

I am reminded of the song “I am a friend of God” by Israel Houghton

Who am I that You are mindful of me
That You hear me when I call
Is it true that You are thinking of me
How You love me it's amazing
[Chorus]
I am a friend of God
I am a friend of God
I am a friend of God
He calls me friend

It’s not about being religious with God. It is about relationship. He wants to have a relationship with us. We are enough when we are a friend of God. 
 

Sunday, November 9, 2025

Likes, Followers and Haters

The Psychology Behind Social Media Likes: Understanding What Drives  Engagement
Today's social media world is powered by followers and likes. There are people called "influencers" on social media who make at least $50,000 each year because of it. These influencers depend on people following them or liking them.

The flip side of having likes and followers in social media (or everyday life) is the haters. Like it or not we are all going to have haters. Not everyone is going to like us.

I have never been the popular person. Regardless of how much I wanted everyone to like me, I have always been challenged by those who didn't like me. I always hope that I am a likeable person to most people but sometimes people just don't like me for various reasons.

The reality is that we can't please everyone. So why can't we? People may not like us for many reasons.

Sometimes the reason people don't like us has nothing to do with us. I have encountered many arrogant people who are either excessively critical, selfish or feel the need to be competitive. Some only think of themselves and what benefits them. If you aren't of value then they don't make the effort.

I once had a person in my life who NEVER had a positive thing to say about me and was always critical about everything I did. It bothered me for many years until one day I realized that just because this person had an opinion about me didn't me they were right. I decided to go on and mostly not pay much attention to their issues with me.

We also know that people can be judgmental of us. They will assume things about us because of our looks, financial status, family, etc. They never get to know us. They make assumptions and decide they don't like us from the beginning.

Many times the reason people don't like us isn't about us but a reflection of the other person's own issues and insecurities. We can't always control it and we can't always "win" them over.

The way we deal with it is to do the best that we can and if we don't have anyone who likes or follows us, we just live our lives regardless of what they think of us. Believe me - from a person who lived most of his life trying to please people, you end up being the one that lives a miserable existence.  Yes, we should do our best to get along with everyone but when we can't we shouldn't stress out about it.

Stay composed and true to who you are.  Set boundaries and choose not to take it personally.  Yeah, I know that's hard to do but you will do better when you can be more chill about it.  Let go of your need to be liked by everyone.  Live with integrity and focus on your own values and goals.

"Some people don’t like you just because your strength reminds them of their weakness. Don’t let the hate slow you down.”  — Thema Davis